Thanks for all the responses. So there are many options to address this problem.
Walking around the room, the bass is more resonant in the corners and near the back wall. I listen above 3 feet from the back wall and even there is audible.
My personal conclusion: this is a room, not a speaker problem. There is nothing wrong with the speakers per say. Second, I have not had good success with DSP as it changes the FR but also degrades the sound quality. Third reducing sound at 40Hz does not address the problem. Sure the hump is gone but I think I would loose bass quality as what is left is still a resonance and not music.
So looking into it as a room problem, I tried moving the speakers around and nothing helped. If there is some magic spot, I could not find it.
- One foot front the front wall.
- Middle (7 feet out) of the room.
- Speakers 5 feet apart up to 10 feet apart.
If you want to test your system, I play Madonna’s " I don’t search I find". When she drops that depth charge at 0:46 my room goes kaboom.
I heard back from GK Acoustics and they say "you’ll need a decent amount of coverage all over the surfaces of your room" with 10.5-17" thick panels to get any decent attenuation.
So it looks like Atmasphere’s "Distributed Bass Array’ is only viable solution.