Hi Bo1972,
Yes, your description of the sound matched my thoughts largely and this presentation indeed was not the best promotion for B&W.
Factors involved as room influence, setup, breakin, elctronics used and others could not be ignored however, and apparently (some of) these factors had a negative impact on the sound.
So new chances next week when I am going to listen to 803D3 in a totally other setup and place...
Did not found them that ugly though.