So the Revels sound "hard, thin and sterile" with a VTL pre and a CJ amp??? You prefer tubes but these speakers are a tough load for tubes??? Um, what??? Short of you using awful interconnects and cables and/or some awful recordings that could be contributing to the problem, it sure looks like the writing's on the wall on several levels. Dump the speakers. Life's too short to spend precious time and effort solving inherent mismatches like these. FWIW. Best of luck.