ElusiveDisc.com lists "$1449.99" for Re-Tip/Exchange on a Transfiguration Axia. Sounds like a decent option; not sure why Needledoctor couldn’t help more. Give the other guys a call and see what they say. They’re getting some 40% cut for simply passing along an 8 oz package, so you’d think they would be eager to help.
I’d save a bit longer and get what you want rather than potentially settling for a lesser $1K cartridge. I’m also of the opinion that if you love a cartridge that needs work, keep it original by only having work done by the manufacturer. Otherwise get a different cartridge, and sell the body to someone who will get the work done wherever they like.
Isn’t Transfiguration Japanese? Sometimes you can search & import cartridges directly from Japan for greatly discounted prices. Varies a lot by brand, though.
I’ve heard so many stories like yours over the years. We really need a vinyl-junkie PSA: have your cartridges LOCKED away when the cleaning lady comes. It’s not enough simply to tell them to stay away from the audio gear. It’s NEVER enough! They must be physically restricted from coming into contact with your precious cartridge.