Thank everyone for all the continued advice!
Spendor A7's are still near the top of my list and found a pair within my budget through a private listing. On the other hand also found a dealer demo pair of the Spendor D7.2's a little over budget, but not so far that I might still be able to get wife approval. Anyone have experience to compare these two directly? Just because the D7.2 is more expensive I'm not sure it automatically makes it better.
Also found a ProAc dealer that has a D20R that I can demo in store [granted it's a 4hr drive but still think it's likely worthwhile].
Finally I came across a brand I previously had no knowledge of....Jean-Marie Reynaud [JMR]. Does any one have experience with their speakers, maybe specifically the Euterpe Jubile? From their own website they sound like they could be a very good fit, but I'm having trouble finding many reviews or personal experience.
Thanks again!