@atmasphere Thanks for clarifying that equipment can be balanced and still not support the standard, I think that this clears up a lot of confusion.
I have been trialing some XLR cables recently, in this case a friend loaned me some Wireworlds and Analysis Plus cables. A very distinct difference in sound between these cables, you can't miss it. I guess my equipment (Schiit->Benchmark->Coda) does not follow the standard.