Hey Chuck. Are you THE Chuck, formerly of Northern Virginia, to whom I spoke at RMAF?
The confounding reports of apparent tonearm/cartridge mismatches that sound great have me thinking about the quality of the data for compliance and tonearm effective mass that we start with. Also, for some of the newer/newest tonearms, there are NO data coming from the maker. To wit, I asked a dealer about the effective mass of the Talea. Turns out an exact number is not available.
Of course also, Raul and others have correctly (probably) pointed out that the compliance/mass issue is not at all the sole determinant of a good tonearm/cartridge marriage. I suspect that is a very important truth.