I can't guaruntee saftey but you may be able to sub the 12AT7 for the much lower gain 12AU7. The 12--7 miniature twin triodes have the same pin out. The problem you might encounter is that while the voltage will lose gain, but the amperage pass thru goes up. I would still stick with the 5751 because it is just a better sounding tube regardless of it's lower mu of 70 affects the volume.
Other than that your choices are civil peaceful resistance. Or realistically a different volume attenuator which is what I think most preamps use to alter the volume of the amps. I think power amp gain is fixed and the preamp signal is what is indeed manipulated. The best way to do that is to buy a different preamp because buying a more sophisticated volume attennuator and having installed will cost a lot and lower the value of the pre unmoded. I know this is not the answer you wanted, but I also own a preamp with "gain from hell". The venerable ARC SP-6B which I just gave up on using.
BTW Almarg is a very good technical source, I would be still afraid though that a fixed resistor might flatten the sound. Just superstition but the resistor has to maintain the overall "caliber" of quality the rest of the pre has.
Other than that your choices are civil peaceful resistance. Or realistically a different volume attenuator which is what I think most preamps use to alter the volume of the amps. I think power amp gain is fixed and the preamp signal is what is indeed manipulated. The best way to do that is to buy a different preamp because buying a more sophisticated volume attennuator and having installed will cost a lot and lower the value of the pre unmoded. I know this is not the answer you wanted, but I also own a preamp with "gain from hell". The venerable ARC SP-6B which I just gave up on using.
BTW Almarg is a very good technical source, I would be still afraid though that a fixed resistor might flatten the sound. Just superstition but the resistor has to maintain the overall "caliber" of quality the rest of the pre has.