Got a amazingly fast reply from MacIntosh:
"The 2300 preamplifier circuitry, XLR’s are converted from bal-unbal on the way in and unbal-bal on the way out.
Converting involves a single op-Amp of added circuitry. While added circuitry does add noise to a signal,
XLR connections cancel any noise induced along the cable, which will be infinitely more than the noise created by the single op amp.
The MC302 Amp is differential."
IMO, purists would probably only accept full differential with identical circuits. Op-Amp converts to a balance signal on the way out but does not preserve balance circuitry in the component. In any case, except for the uber high-end (which is not my system), it probably doesn't make much of a difference except of some DB gain for XLR's. @ghdprentice advice that the quality of the interconnect matters more than whether it's XLR versus RCA makes sense, at least at my level.