Thank you so much for the very insightful replies!
to your point @soix , I had the chance of listening to a pair of Devore o/baby and pair of Audio Note An/k both of which I liked a lot: big sound stage, very live feeling. For my room, a pair of AN/E would definitely fit
also listened to a few less “exotic” brand like KEF R2, Monitor audio, Sonus Faber: but none really impressed me like the AN and Devore.
electronic wise: Audio Note I Zero - despite being 8wpc and entry level - impressed me the most. The Oto also was amazing. Along solid states I liked Naim Xs3 > Rega Elicit while I felt Hegel 190 was too “thin”