tube preamps

Which Pass Labs amp? Pass is not known for brightness. What cables are you using.

I recommend a Conrad Johnson Premier 17ls you should have no problem finding one within your budget, or 16ls (used) if you can stretch a bit; both have remote. Bigkdz makes a good point Pass Labs are not known for brightness. I have found them to be very smooth and warm almost, dare I say it, tube like. Keep in mind the pre-amp is the life blood of your system as I have found it to be a greater contributor to great sound than the amplifier or front end (digital).

Chuck

The CJ preamps would be my first choice, but they are fairly neutral, just a tad warm. If you really want to tame an edgy or hot amp, try a Sunfire Classic Tube Preamp.

I second the Sonic Frontiers stuff. I love my Line 1

McIntosh C2200, which retails for 4500$, but shoud already be on Audiogon or e-bay, and which otherwise fills all your requirements