In all seriousnesss with the kinds of questions you are asking you need to hire an electrician. I would hate to see you destroy your equipment or worse burn up your living quarters. At least go to an Electrical Supply house near you and ask questions. Stay away from Home Depot or Lowes. They are good places when you know what you want but when you have to ask the kinds of questions you are asking they may not be the best source. Just my two cents.
Chuck
Chuck