i think i'm in a "final" tweak stage. i left the speakers 9ft apart, i remeasured my equilateral triangle and found i was sitting back too far from the tip of the triangle by about 12ish". so i fixed that. before fixing that, ears were only 32ish" from the back wall, now ears are 43ish" from back wall. my tilt is still at 3", which i will change again tomorrow to 3.5" and even try 3.75" and 4" (if i can get that).
as it stands now though, i am closer to that "texture" i described earlier, quite a bit closer. the sound is still smooth. the vocals (N.J.) "bloom" a bit but, before it was a little over powering in the "bloom", now it is not.
one thing RV said to me in an email was to watch out for room enhancing the bass/midbass freq. and that they certainly can account for the lack of detail i had early on.
oh, i repositioned the speakers according to the 5th rule also, so they are 36" out from the wall behind them. so with that plus me moving my head further into the room (even though it's 12" or so), i've put myself into a great spot. i think i'm definitely getting that magic or as close as i've been for the 1 year they've been in this room. like i said, just adding a little more tilt will be my final tweak i think then. not going to worry about raising them.
the sound is solid, i think there's some bass notes that are heavy, but upper bass and vocal ranges and highs are more important to me. the sound is open, there is air, more detail than before, the center image is still rock solid despite being so far apart, and it's all still smooth. oh, i have about 1/2" of toe-in. loving them again :)
next up is new cables from dac to integrated amp. you guys might think me odd, but i'm still using the dac magic+ with a pc as the source, it's good enough for now, and i also have a krell s300i. speaker wires are kimber kable 12tc and i'm looking at hero balanced next.