The OP can see that recommendations and "whats wrong" are all over the place.
I've heard countless uber setups with every form of "correct" setup. Just about any decent brand/technology will sound "good."
One thing for certain is it's the sum of everything-excluding additional add on footers, mats, etc. IMO.
Trying a different cart with the existing setup makes more sense. My VPI is leagues LESS than the OP's, and there certainly isn't any shortage of performance on both ends of the spectrum.
A $500-700 Audio Technica OC9 or whatever can dramatically change the game. After that, it's what I mentioned earlier-use the best available phono stage to maximize its potential.
Source recording makes a HUGE difference in performance.
I use ML Theos, many steps below the OP's CLS. No shortage of convincing music. Subjective, of course like the rest of audiophoolery.