what speakers to buy


so this is my 1st time posting. the question is what speakers. i am going into this blind trying to put together a decent system on a budget. i live in a city where bose is considered the high end of high end and the nearest audiophile shops are hours away.
over the years i have owned a lot of vintage gear and still collect some of it. solid state and tube. some of the tube gear was marantz, macintosh, dynaco, heathkit, radio craftsmen, pilot etc. also the usual solid state marantz, pioneer, kenwood, adcom. speakers jbl, polk, altec (model 19 and vott), paradigm, klipsch, bozak, sansui, AR, advent. all the usual suspects
so far i have purchased a copland tube pre cta-305 and a pair of rogue audio m180 amps. all mint condition all under a year old for under half price of new. i also have a denon DP-60L TT 
(with sumiko pearl cartridge)
speaker budget is around 5000 give or take a 1000. if i'm patient i think i can find something that was originally in the 12-20k price range for what i want to spend.
so far i am leaning towards ew andra ii, dali euphonia 800, canton reference 3.2, revel studio ii. size is also a factor and all of these are within that limit.
i have a fairly large area open concept living /dinning and breakfast nook with high ceilings.
and i know "dont buy without listening" but not an option
so looking for some opinions/options

after speakers i will be getting tuner, cd and music server, current interconnects and speaker wire are all ZU mission


dragonbutx
@lradderI agree with you 120 percent. I have the rogue cronus magnum ii and sonus faber 2.5 . The rogue really takes a hold of the drivers in these speakers. Magical combo!  

What is the rest of your system comprised of?  Interested to hear.  By the way changed the 12au7 preamp tube to a mullard military grade 4003. What karma !
If you like to use the "normal" direct radiating speakers, I will tell you that it is no point in searching further than the XTZ Divine Alpha. Focals, B&W, Wilson, and the usuals at twice their price would not compete, amp for amp. They are beautiful, sound beautiful, and are extensively tunable to your room an/or liking, and give you option to go crossover active too. 
If you want dynamic, realistic, big sound, image, soundstage, slam, resolution, timing, phase consistency/coherence etc.. get a Tannoy dual concentric ... in your budget, the Legacy Arden will give you just about everything.
If I were spending $5k on speakers I would setup auditions at Chicago audio shops for 1 day. Drive there, audition with your music and see a little bit of Chicago. If you can swing a budget hotel, stay the night and go back to listen to your favs. If nothing else, you get much closer to the brands and models you like...first hand. No chance of shipping problems and if you plan your trip in an organized way, you will maximize a good number of speakers to hear ie....Audio shop a - three brands, audio shop b- four brands and audio shop c- 2 brands. That could be 10-12 speakers in one day. If you cannot afford the speakers you have listened to and like drive home and look for a good used pair. To me $5k is a little too much to leave to chance for the buying and selling method till you find what you want. It takes too long.. too much can go wrong.
Hey Soundwatts...Glad I'm not alone in the appreciation! In addition, I have a PS Audio NuWave DAC, A Bluesound Vault 2 Streamer/Storage, an Audioquest Niagara 1000 Conditioner, and various Audioquest Cables and Rocket 88 Speaker Cables.