my first system might be a good starting point for you...i had an old NAD 7225PE receiver (look for a 7240PE or more powerful integrated if you can find one)...I also had Vandersteen 1b speakers that I consider pretty damn good for the price in my opinion...(they are heavy though so factor in shipping)...then i just ran a vintage 1993 dvd player through it and voila...for me at least...I...like yourself...want the best 2 channel for my money so you'll see that 12 years later...i still have a 2 channel HT...and actually...the one on my system page is being given to a friend when i move (in exchange for some painting help...lol) and when i upgrade everything...it will still be a 2 channel Home theater...but will probably be in the 10-15k range...yikes...maybe you should just buy the ipod and headphones and run while you still can.
good luck
just my 2c
Ellery
good luck
just my 2c
Ellery