Who R U?


A while back Garfish mentioned he lked the idea of getting to know some of us better.As no one has started a thread like this before I will take the plunge.I have been involved in and read many heated exchanges here in AudioGon.I hope no one attacks me for this thread saying "who cares about you,this is audio" Anyway,Im 45 and live in W.N.Y.I have never been married but have a music loving 11 year old daughter who lives with me.I have been a nurse for 20 years.Before that I was a Navy Corpsman for several years.I recently became engaged (first time) to a beautiful 30 year old music loving woman.At my age a 30 year old is a keeper and I have never been happier!! My other interests??Im into vinyl,who has time for anything else??
david99
Welcome Karl! I am also in the medical profession but not at your level.I have an extensive background in psychiatry, but for the life of me,I am unable to find any reference in my old,dusty books about Audiophile Neurosis.I know it must be considered a major disorder though,as all one has to do is spend some time here to see for ones self!!! Happy posting and be careful!
There are many reasons people pursue excellence and perfection. The fact that we do it in relation to A) Cool machines that B) Produce pleasurable music is just icing on the cake. Perseverating on RFI, ground loops and SET versus MOSFET keeps our minds from straying to more distressing thoughts (like what am I doing with my life ETC.) I like this neurosis. Very theraputic.

-Karl
Hello all. My name is Philip Weber, and I am a home theateraholic. I've been hooked now for a good while. I also just want to say that this is a great site, and I'm glad I came upon it like I did. Scary to think it was by mere accident, and might not have happened at all! Whew!
Alright, well, I am a fairly young guy(23), still in school trying to make a life for myself, and a total gear head. I have been into home theater since I was 17 when I picked up my first copy of Home Theater Technology Magazine. Albeit I was not able to actually purchase any of the great gear I saw in its pages at the time, but that didn't stop me from putting together my future system in my head! I knew from the moment I saw how elegant and heard how powerfull audio/video equipment could sound that I was hooked. Visions of amps and D/A converters have danced in my head many a Christmas night since that fateful day.
I'm not really an audiophile per say. Not yet anyway ;]. I do have a good ear though, and will only accept the best that my money can buy. Maybe that explains why I have still yet to buy a new car. Oh well.
I wanna start off by saying one thing first. Actually, it is more of an observation of myself as it relates to the state of mind of the afficionado. Am I the only one here who can sit in my living room and just stare at my "gear" for hours without care? Please tell me I am not alone, or I may give this hobby of mine up for fear of being dumped by my girlfriend. Or do I not have my priorities in order? Heh.
One thing I have learned in my short time among'st the chosen is what someone one time said to me. He said that you may be able to get a decent system together consisting of a home theater in the box packaged with a reciever, but you will never know the true potential of your system unless it is comprised of seperates. How true that is. Within the past year I have been able to assemble a pretty decent sounding seperates system, and will never go back to an all in one solution. Hassle of setup be damned, I want my superior sound quality!
To wrap things up before I go a make a novel of this I'll go ahead and stop now. I know I have to be rambling by now. I always tend to do that when I think of audio/video. Chalk it up to the exuberance of youth. Besides, I'll have plenty of oppurtunity to tell you about myself and what my system consists of at a later date. More importantly, I have to go pay the better half a visit before she thinks I've been hugging the equipment again. I look forward to interacting with my fellow audio/video affecionados! Later everybody!

Philip Weber,
Total gear head and slave to the hobby since '95
Philip- welcome! You got bit by the bug, my friend! Welcome to the madness. Just kidding. It is a wonderful journey and you are lucky to have discovered it so young.
Tip on the girlfriend front
1. get her involved in your hobby and help her "hear" why it is so cool - this will help out in the long run.
2. Also, be ready to compromise - now, before you say WHAT?!?!?! - what I mean is, support her "hobbies and ESPECIALLY spending" as well.
3. Ask her to come along and listen, let her know that the female ear is so much better than a man's and that you NEED her to HELP. This, my friend, will go a LONG way to her feeling a part of it and not in COMPETITION with it.
4. Never stand her up for something about audio or HT. If you made a date - KEEP IT.

Any other tips?

Now, Phillip, you just sit there and stare without it being on? You may need some professional help (just kidding).

How did you "stumble upon us"?
Glad that you're here and hope that this helps in your journey.
cheers,
AJ
Welcome Phillip!!
Angela,those are very good tips you gave! I wish I would have known about them 7 girlfriends ago!!
"EWE" should write a book "Love and the Audiophile"