First off, being a huge PF fan, I am surprised I missed something - your reference to the PF affect? Clue me in (I might just need a memory prod ;-)
Now for my perspective (for what that's worth...)
Focusing on Genelec as an example - just 'cause I've been following them for a while:
It seems to me that in the beginning, Genelec never intended to market to consumers, so they just didn't spend any time there. No dealer network was ever formed, no marketing, no nothing really...
It'same with most hi-end Pro mfgs - or even most Pro mfgs at all for that matter. With the exception of Manley (who's not very high-end but would like us to think otherwise), you don't see Grace, Avalon, Neumann, Apogee, Neve, SSL, etc. etc. etc. offering up any product to the high-end consumer. The market is simply perceived as too small. Which it probably is when you stop and think about it.
Next, as you made reference to, most pro speaker mfg's (certainly Genelec) are not so overly concerned with aesthetics. Coming from Finland, Genelec are bound to take a minimalist 'function over form' approach. So things like 'your choice in finish' just ain't gonna come from the Finnish. :-)
Lastly, at first glance Genelecs (like most high-end pro gear) are far from inexpensive. I think people not so in the know probably suffer some serious sticker shock when they see a 'pair of speakers' that are two-ways with a 10 inch woofer selling for $5-6K - not taking into account that it's actually a pair of monitors, amps and cables...
Genelec appears to have assumed that their true market would know and understand the application of their product. And it certainly seems to have worked for them over the years. The 1030 and 1031s quickly became the replacement defacto standard 'you gotta have a pair of these' small reference monitors that the Yamaha NS-10Ms and Rogers LS3-5As once were. Or, showing my age a bit, the not so small JBL 4311Bs.
In summary, I think the audiophile community simply got left out of the loop. And those in the community that found there way in front of a pair of Genelecs, etc. either got it, and became small footprint advocates, or didn't get it (or want to get it) and shunned the brand/concept as either 'too clinical' or elitist (ironic when you look at stuff like Wilsons, IRSs, and Plasmatronics (age again), etc.) Either way, the whole conversation above about the "nice", tinker, and social factors notwithstanding, they found themselves somewhere outside of the seemingly exclusive club of high-end pro audio, preferring to stay in the world of extremes in application, wild theory, debate, and aesthetic design.
To go on and just be wordy as heck again (I really have to get a grip on this run-on thing...)
In more recent years, Genelec did start to realize they were missing a whole market that could be a great source of revenue for them. They started selling 'Home Theater Packages' and even have in-wall speakers now. They seemed to me to market in the high-end demo's but never really explained their mission or concept, or research the target segment they were shooting for - so few fish bit. Think back to IBM's big mainframe days applying their existing marketing dept. to sell PC platform products... (read OS/2.)
So that untapped market remains mostly untapped still by continued in-the-box thinking / marketing strategy.
To argue the contrary, some friend of my next door neighbor apparently has an 8000 sqft home with dedicated theater, etc. etc. and supposedly, his whole house is like a Genelec theme park (along with Crestron Pro and others.) So evidently there's at least one HT/SmartHome design/construction company in the area that is placing the stuff.
I've gone on so much now, I don't even know - did I answer your implied question?
:-) or :-( if you're tired of my blather...
Peace!
C