Its only mind-numbing if you make it that way. Most of the guys here are experts at spinning you so far down the rabbit holes you'll wish you'd taken up something fun and easy like nuclear physics or MMA.
Your speakers are at the low end of acceptable, but then so were mine until recently. Here's what I had, and they were the same 90dB only mine were nominal 8 ohm.
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/8367 Notice that is a 50wpc tube amp. Notice that is a pretty big room. I listen fairly loud, sometimes really loud, and was just able to do that with these speakers and amp. Now with Tekton Moab speakers, 98dB, in spite of being 4 ohms they are a lot easier to drive and play really loud with a fraction of the power the Talons required. Because, remember, log function.
So again, forget power. Forget who likes what. Least useful thing imaginable is some reviewer telling you they liked it. Only way that has any meaning at all is if you know the reviewer, he's your best bud, you heard all kinds of stuff together and agree on everything. Otherwise, ignore. Only thing matters is what they say they heard. Pay attention to how they describe the sound. How they say it compares to other amps. Pay attention to what they regard as a higher standard. Because its all relative. There's a million levels. You can find great gear at every level. But the more time you spend thinking about watts and ohms the harder it gets to find them.