Convincing your local dealer to let you try speakers at home

@ghdprentice Thank you for elaborating. It does seem, from your second paragraph, that what you hear as good is also enjoyed by those who hear your system. You have taste, and others can appreciate your version of taste. Be well.

@ghdprentice, knowing the speakers and the ARC upstream I have no doubt it sounds fabulous, and most importantly, musical.

In the early 90s a few dealers came to my home even. I borrowed equipment (with security) to audition for ten years and slowly settled down. Now a dealer I've known 30 years can't let me hear a used Jeff Rowland amp without buying it with no chance to return it if not a match. For me, it's hopeless now to upgrade. I'm happy enough now to not gamble on unheard gear.

As for speakers I have 'known' my listening rooms well enough to not make a mistake with something that would not work. Correct speaker-to-room sizing and a good strong knowledge (and enjoyment) of the sound of the speaker brand in advance help. After that, it's positioning, treatments, DSP, etc. when applicable.

i have a couple local dealers near me that only require a look at my id and writing down my cc# without running it. it's always open box and i'm allowed the speakers/component around a week, but now that I've done a bit of shopping here and usam I pre negotiate the price, often for a floor demo b4 demoing. Components aren't too hard for me to tell apart(or not) , but speakers can take me several months for me to hear their tell and once hears can never be unheard. So, I buy used speakers I think I'm interested in and demo them as long as I need at home. Current residents Kef Blade, some headliners preceded  them tho'. 

I find the current hifi shops, at least around Chicago are mature and when I describe what I have and where I'm trying to get they are upfront with me by either showing me what they recommend or flat out, but gently suggesting I get out of my own head and start listening to some new music.