If your laying hardwood over concrete, then I would put down cork as a barrier between the concrete and the wood. Can you raise your ceiling; this would open up the sound, giving it room to travel. What about your walls? Are you using electrostatic panels?
Here's an interesting read about acoustics in Boston's Symphony Hall;
http://www.architects.org/architectureboston/articles/seen-and-heard-boston-symphony-hall
Here's an interesting read about acoustics in Boston's Symphony Hall;
http://www.architects.org/architectureboston/articles/seen-and-heard-boston-symphony-hall