The below models have auto lift at end of record and auto shut off. Auto return is NOT necessary as it adds a motor underneath the tonearm, just more things to break and resonate. All have really decent arms.
JVC QL-A7, same as QL-7 but with auto lift & shut off, detachable headshell.
Yamaha YP-D71, JVC coreless motor, detachable headshell.
Kenwood KD-770D, coreless motor, excellent tonearm with detachable headshell with offset angle on straight armwand.
Technics SL-M2, two versions: P-mount or detachable headshell(hard to find).
I also agree with Dlaloum from above.
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