I don’t say things for no reason , I read all the posts and no one was getting through to him . In the 70 years I’ve been old enough to give and receive advice, I’ve found that the person that "jerked my chain" was, in the long run, the one who helped the most, and said chain goes both ways . Near total naivete is a good reason to
shake someone up and unlikely to traumatize them from someone they do not know .
My concern is for individuals and I am not greatly concerned by the state of a hobby community that will not be affected by any thing I say anyway .
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