Guest suddenly takes it upon herself to move my speakers


Has this ever happened to anyone here?

You have your speakers positioned just as you like them, and then a guest takes it upon themselves to suddenly move your speakers?

Obviously I’m not going to get any sympathy from anyone in the non Audio world, so I thought I’d post my frustrating experience here.

I also imagine that many of your speakers can’t simply be slid out of position due to spikes or carpeting or sheer weight. Probably a good number of you, who like me have speakers on hardwood floors, have some marks in place to be able to return speakers to their exact position. (Which I didn’t)

But a recent female first time guest was sitting on the floor positioned between the speakers as we listened and for some reason decided that they should be pointed directly at her. Now some people might think “how obnoxious,” and others might think, ‘hey, a woman who wants the toe in angle optimzed for her seating position! She’s a keeper! Let her handle whatever she wants!”

And while I did like the enthusiasm, there was a supertweeter precariously balanced atop each speaker fireing rearward that could have easily toppled off and broken. (And no, there are no kids in the house).

I still haven’t found the exact sweet spot I had them in. For a long time I felt like a bit of an audio slacker since I never installed the factory spikes or rounded cones TAD provides for the CR1’s. Until a few months ago I read on another forum that many CR1 owners choose to just keep the stands on the floor, or haven’t found a benefit to using the spikes/cones on hardwood.

Obviously I’ll use the incident to try and eventually find an even more optimal positioning than they were in, but it still irks me that someone would just assume it’s okay to move a sophisticated audio setup that they truly know nothing about.

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I am not a Trappist but I once spent a some time with them.  Trappists take a holy vow of hospitability which I greatly admire but which is sometimes abused. I take a vow of what might be called “conditional hospitability”. I’ll be nice as hell but don’t abuse me.  In general when anyone is out of their element, in a foreign culture or cult, almost anyone can commit any type of faux pas with intending to.  We should endeavor to show forbearance.

 

Fifty some years ago (right after Woodstock) I was invited to a Hare Krishna temple. We were instructed to remove our shoes as we entered the temple. They were in the process of carving brand new wooden idols; one of which I pointed to with my foot. Oh Lawdy, I desecrated their most holy idol with my socked foot. Replay “Raiders of the Lost Ark”; I escaped the poison darts, the big round stone from above and a biplane full of snakes.  They may still have my size 12D Puma training shoes.

 Audiophiles are also cult, or can be. In my case I have a few small pieces of painter’s tape to mark the “holy spot” where my maggies became “fully enlightened”. Actually damage my Magnepan 3.7i speakers however and I may have to bury you somewhere in my back yard near the cesspool.  As long as I can do that calmly and without malice it not a Cardinal Sin. I may be over reacting, you can live.  You just can’t leave with your debit cards, driver’s license or pass port or, as I learned the hard way, your shoes.


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(I’d want to smash her head on the ground tbh)

For touching your speakers, really man. After reading some of these post I’m a little surprised, and I thought this was a classy place. I guess you really can’t BUY class, to many tough guys around here for me. Y’all have fun in these stucco mansions, I’ll hangout on the farm.
Cut her some slack, In her mind it was probably the equivalent of turning a portable radio around on the picnic table so she could hear better.

At least she cared enough to get better sound for her listening position...that earns her 3.7 points.

Just ask her nicely not to move them again and explain why...even though she might think your a bit of an anal douchebag afterwards.
To add to my previous post,  If you're trying to get into her pants don't bring it up.....and get used to your speakers being moved. :-)