@renosteve -- you completely misread my question. The "Why?" was not inquiring as to why you were asking about speakers, but rather why you failed in multiple responses to say what speakers you currently have.
For example, if you have (and love) a horn setup in your current system and are trying to carry that forward into your new listening room, that eliminates at lot of options people have suggested.
You mentioned KEF R3 Metas, but the way you wrote the sentence sounds like those are not your current speakers but rather an experiment you tried for the new room.
So we STILL don't know anything about your current setup and the sound you're looking for. It's always odd when people ask for help and then withhold information. It makes one wonder...