It makes no difference whether it is music or a finely-tuned machine, like a HD...a dB is a dB.
It does. A machine at 85 db will output continuous noise at that level affecting the ear in exactly the same frequencies for a continuous period - like a jack hammer on the hearing it is specifically working certain nerve bundles and hairs.
Music (especially classical) will have much more dynamic range - so you get a lot of soft passages mixed with louder ones that may reach 85 db only on the louder passages.
The key with hearing is exposure. Giving your ears a break is very important. That break can be either several soft classical passages or an album of laid back acoustic music played in the middle of a session or harder and louder rock.
Variety is important - 4 hours of continuous Metallica played loud is much worse than an eclectic mix with some balads thrown in.