I beleive you need to take off the top cover of your
Music Reference RM-4 pre-preamp
and look inside if the gain plug is 30dB, if it is 30dB then you should connect the RM-4 outputs to phono stage MM input, because most MM input of a phono stage will provide about 40dB of gain and give your Denon DL103R
a total of 70dB gain!
Usually the MC input of a phono stage provide about 60dB of gain and give you total gain of 90dB! It will hurt the overload margins
of your setup.
With RM-4 adding a 30db of gain, how much its output voltage will be if
the incoming voltage is 0.25mV the MCC cartridge outputs?
= 7.9mV
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