What are the dimensions of your room? You could have a standing wave problem that is very difficult to correct with absorbers and diffusers. Most absorbers do not work well below about 80-100Hz (even the so called "bass traps"). If you have room that is square, or 2 dimensions are multiples of each other you could have a pretty serious problem that needs to be corrected electronically. I would get a radioshack or other sound pressure meter and measure the room (and speaker) response first using something like Stereophile's test CD. Once you know what frequencies are giving you the problem, it will be easier to figure out how to deal with the problem.