I just did a reread & I read this by @grislybutter , did you ever give this a try?
Also, in that previous listening space which you have alluded to, did you have any gear between the speakers?
i have not turned the subs off. i guess my question is what would be the purpose of that ?
yes the gear is in between the speakers. the stands are basically amp stands, so they are very low to the ground.