That "tube sound" and power ratings


This might be a newbie question since I've only begun researching tube technology. I understand to some degree the theory that tube sound is partly related to second harmonic distortion vs. the more prevalent odd order harmonic characteristics of SS. If "tubies" prefer that sound (I might be one of them), does it make sense to carefully match an amplifier's power rating such that it is NOT TOO HIGH for the speakers it's driving? If the rating is too high won't that mean lower distortion and hence less tube sound for a given volume for those speakers than a lower power tube amp (in general that is - I realize not all Watts are the same). So won't a high wattage tube amp have less of the special tube sound "tubies" like at their preferred listening volume?

I realize I'm likely missing something here. Set me straight!
hazyj
I've said it before, but it bears repeating even if I'm the only one who believes it: Tube amps make you a better person, they display signs of life in their glowing hot little selves, and SS amps that just sit there like a metal lump of "meh" are far less interesting regardless of how they sound, unless they have some sort of fluctuating meter on them in which case I give 'em a pass (no pun intended). A home run amp I heard recently was a Rogers (there are others) that had tubes AND a meter...a goal for all tube amps to strive for.
"That's definitely true that in the studio it's processing the signal - but at home, tube amps are often doing the same thing. It is a form of distortion. Not all tube based systems distort this way, but I do see lots of listeners using underpowered amps for the speakers they have."

Just to clarify, I was talking in general theory as to what is expected of a home stereo. Reproduce the original event as accurately as possible, etc... You've heard it all before. I wasn't suggesting that everybody approaches their system that way. There's the 2 extremes, and most people are somewhere in the middle.

"Tubes are a great way to emotionally get close to the music - I think of tubes as a way to create an illusion that performers are in the room with you - but I never think of this as accurate or neutral - but it can be very involving..."

Why not? When you go see live music, do you expect it to be accurate, neutral and not emotionally involving? lol. I know I do. I want it to sound just like my stereo system at home.