The most important word of advise?

When you listen (you are going to listen before you buy anything, aren't you?), beware of "impressive sound".

In case that needs clarification: sound that somehow directs your attention to how extended the highs are, or how much bass there is, or whatever element you care to pick out, is in my very humble experience, never a good sign.

The kind of sound I can live with takes its place in the room like a normal person and speaks at a normal level, and if you don't pay attention to it at first it doesn't try and grab you... but when you open up to it, it dances with you. I find myself moving, toes tapping maybe. It's physical.

Put your money in your speakers first. Build your system around them. They are, ultimately, where the music comes out. I know this will generate some controversy, but that is where I would start.

Don't let your wife or significant other dictate what you buy. They get to pick the drapes, furniture, etc. They have no business making audio-centric decisions. Be a man
for once in your life...

-RW-