There is no simple answer to your question, there are books written on this subject. The 'dead feeling of absorbsion' occurs in an overly damped room. Diffusion per se is not your solution, for example, if your 'deadness' is caused by excessive furnishings, drapes, furniture, etc.
FWIW, it depends on the sonics of your room, why they are what they are, where your problems areas are, and what you are trying to accomplish by putting up room treatments.
Diffusors are good for reducing the effect of direct reflections without deadening them - I would use them on walls behind the speaker or behind the listener. For example, the back wave from a panel speaker usually sound best when it hits the wall behind the speakers and it is diffused, not deadened by absorbers. Diffusors are likewise best behind the listener because it will diffuse, but not reduce second reflections from walls which will continue to bounce around randomly (a good thing, it can make your room sound more spacious, with out excessive brightness.
Absorbion panels are best used for killing first reflections from the wall near speakers (and ceilings - rugs work well enuf on the floor. This is a good thing because you will get a much cleaner initial signal from your speakers - the sound will have a purer tone, less distortion. It will help to enhance and expand the sense of soundstage.
FWIW, there is no cheap/easy fix. I'd suggest that you don't buy anything for your walls until you know exactly what you are doing and why...Of course if you've got spare money and don't like to study acoustic's, hire a pro service like Rives provides. :-)
FWIW, it depends on the sonics of your room, why they are what they are, where your problems areas are, and what you are trying to accomplish by putting up room treatments.
Diffusors are good for reducing the effect of direct reflections without deadening them - I would use them on walls behind the speaker or behind the listener. For example, the back wave from a panel speaker usually sound best when it hits the wall behind the speakers and it is diffused, not deadened by absorbers. Diffusors are likewise best behind the listener because it will diffuse, but not reduce second reflections from walls which will continue to bounce around randomly (a good thing, it can make your room sound more spacious, with out excessive brightness.
Absorbion panels are best used for killing first reflections from the wall near speakers (and ceilings - rugs work well enuf on the floor. This is a good thing because you will get a much cleaner initial signal from your speakers - the sound will have a purer tone, less distortion. It will help to enhance and expand the sense of soundstage.
FWIW, there is no cheap/easy fix. I'd suggest that you don't buy anything for your walls until you know exactly what you are doing and why...Of course if you've got spare money and don't like to study acoustic's, hire a pro service like Rives provides. :-)