I'm using a program called Pure Vinyl on my Mac which uses 64 bit processing and a digital volume control. The Mac is hooked up to an RME Fireface 400 via firewire and I modified the outputs to bypass the opamps so I'm going straight off of the DACs to my power amps. It sounds incredible.
You are right that the higher number of bits gives you better results but that has to be done in the software before the attenuation, not after in hardware. I think you would be pleasantly surprised if you tried the Pure Vinyl. They have a free demo. You can use iTunes as the front end and there is a little window with the Pure Vinyl controls that floats on top of iTunes for volume control and moving through the playlist.
You are right that the higher number of bits gives you better results but that has to be done in the software before the attenuation, not after in hardware. I think you would be pleasantly surprised if you tried the Pure Vinyl. They have a free demo. You can use iTunes as the front end and there is a little window with the Pure Vinyl controls that floats on top of iTunes for volume control and moving through the playlist.