He is the one that got me started down this destructive trail, but where his main thing is HT, I diverged and became obsessed (with obsessed being a relative term) with two channel audio.
I’ve always been more of a 2 channel stereo fan myself but I can definitely see myself moving over to Home Theatre sometime in the future. A large TV without high quality sound is far less immersive.
Worse yet, if they actually dislike the music playing, they will find an excuse to leave the room and quietly, or openly, question the wisdom behind your expensive hobby!
I’ve never had anyone openly question the wisdom of my hobby (apart from my wife but she doesn’t count - she knew what she was marrying into), but yes I’ve felt those vibes on more than one occasion.
Shall we say it’s a slightly uncomfortable feeling?
That’s why it’s always best to be a little diplomatic if a friend asks you how their system sounds. You don’t have to lie, just choose your words carefully.