Regards Lew(m):
Thanks for the gracious "hello".
You wrote: "a lot of so-called authorities have run too far with that ball, saying that headshell offset is THE cause of skating". I too have heard that. One might ask those audio gurus what would be the effect if the headshell were turned away from the spindle, would then skating force direct the arm away from the label? An amusing proposition.
It seems to me that no matter which point of the compass the headshell is aimed or however the tonearm is configured, the axis from stylus to pivot (and as you mentioned, over/underhang) is the primary consideration.
Peace,