When listen to the records, the entire pass has too many points that contribute to the correct reproduction or severe loss. Different cartridges has different electrical and mechanical specifications. These specifications constantly change and degrade with every record played. Unlike digital, when you can hear the same sound again and again, Analog (LP) will play the same record differently with wear and tear effect included.
A cartridge can track and reproduce information from LP even with 10,000 records played, However, the lifespan of diamond stylus is limited to 500-1200 hours. It will play after 1200 hours, but the faces of a diamond stylus will change the shape and it will produce distortion within the actual sound pattern. The longer the stylus used, the less soundstage separation, correct mid-high harmonics and eventually mono-stereo will be produced. Cheap and low quality MM styluses can hold on 50-300 hours only. But from some posts on Audiogon they are "GOOD FOREVER"
The dempfer and suspension could hold on up to 20 years, but have no correct proven functioning pass 2 years.
This is reality of phono cartridge building/using. Also most of the producers would say opposite to protect their sales. After all, not many people could invest $5K-$10K in new/upgraded cartridge every 2-3 years. Making Aidas cartridges, the most challenging task was to find the correct dempfer material. We spent 5 years experimenting with numerous manufacturers, producing our own composites ets. Still in the process, but we got probably the best dempfers on the market, that we actually can tune our cartridges to needed specs. Some materials we got hold on specs already for 5 years. There is a hope...