I didn't realize that there was no standard configuration for the pins on cartridges, that's funny after all these years, to learn this.
The headshell wires from Sota have a small tip of bare wire which has been soldered to the clip, and the rest of the wire is insulated, so the tiny bit of fine wire really wants to break off from the solder since it is trapped there with no flexibility. I see how some glue could help the situation.