It's not surprising a FedEx agent doesn't know the rules, my experience is that even customs officers at the border don't know them very well. The regulations on imports and exports are both very complex and very difficult to understand even if you have all the official information in front of you. In addition, the rules change with every new policy shift by the federal government and those shifts happen often, especially with this administration.
It might be useful to have this link to the summary of regulations by the Customs Department on audiogon's transaction pages.
https://www.cbp.gov/travel/international-visitors/kbyg/customs-duty-info
But even with that information available you might want to rely on a customs broker if the transaction involves much money or an item large enough to attract attention.
The flip side is that there is so much stuff flowing back and forth that an individual with a small item usually isn't worth a border customs officer's time to deal with it.
It might be useful to have this link to the summary of regulations by the Customs Department on audiogon's transaction pages.
https://www.cbp.gov/travel/international-visitors/kbyg/customs-duty-info
But even with that information available you might want to rely on a customs broker if the transaction involves much money or an item large enough to attract attention.
The flip side is that there is so much stuff flowing back and forth that an individual with a small item usually isn't worth a border customs officer's time to deal with it.