There is a lot to this question so lets hear back from you and others.
My own philosophy is based on the expectation, generally speaking, that for a given level of quality, and within a given architecture (solid state, tube push-pull, tube SET, etc.) and class of operation (A, AB, D, etc.), there will tend to be at least a loose correlation between amplifier power capability and amplifier cost. And in choosing an amplifier I prefer to direct as high a percentage as possible of the amount I want to spend toward quality, rather than toward watts.
My listening includes a lot of well engineered classical symphonic recordings, which therefore have very wide dynamic range, and not infrequently reach brief dynamic peaks approaching 105 db at the listening position. So I choose an amplifier that in conjunction with my speakers can comfortably support that level, with a few db to spare, and I don’t pay for any more watts than are necessary to accomplish that. Instead, I try to direct whatever $ I choose to invest in an amplifier toward quality, as much as possible and as best as I can determine that based on research and listening.
On another note, happy Thanksgiving to all!
Best regards,
-- Al