There are other threads on Audiogon where members report their typical listening levels and IIRC most people are listening at far less than 95dB. Having a system (and room) that is capable of cleanly playing at over 100dB is nice, but it's just not essential for most audiophiles. It is similar to the situation with deep bass. Most audiophiles would be perfectly happy with a system that only played flat down to 55Hz, but did everything else excellently. Are they missing some element of the music -- sure, but that doesn't mean they can't enjoy the music they have.
Why would anyone want true concert level volume in their domestic living space? There's a reason you don't put a concert grand piano in your living room.
Why would anyone want true concert level volume in their domestic living space? There's a reason you don't put a concert grand piano in your living room.