Embarrassed....Audio furniture help


Well, I swore I'd never let a woman dictate my two channel system but here we are.  Wife and I bought our first new home, I've got a small but adequate second living area for my system.  Problem is, as mentioned, my wife.  Setup will consist of CD player, AppleTV unit and integrated amp.  May add a streamer at some point but we'll cross that bridge later.  I'm using a pair of bookshelves and will continue to do so for the foreseeable future.

Here's the rub....She is demanding an A/V credenza, so speakers sitting on the credenza on either side of the TV.  Of course I'd love a vertical audio stand and be able to use speaker stands but it's too open, too many exposed cables, blah blah, you know the story.  

Question of the day:  can anyone point me in the right direction?  I need minimum 18" depth and all the awful Crate and Barrel stuff she recommends isn't up to my audio standards.  Needs something with doors for a clean look but I still need my IR signal to work.  Because the speakers aren't going on stands, I'd like something at least 20" tall.  A lot of the fashionable stuff is 14-16" tall, putting the tweeters way below ear level in the listening position.  

Any help would be much appreciated.  

Sincerely,

Man shaking his head with a borderline resigned look


cjlundberg
+1 @barts 
Because the OP posted on our forum, I'm assuming he is interested in high-end audio quality.  Seems a bit unfair that the OP is giving into his wife's interest, but she's ignoring his.  You could say, "I wanted you to have "X" because it was important to you, I was hoping for "Y" because it's important to me."  Then maybe say "Can we work it out so that we both win?"                                                          
Just settled on the Crate and Barrel Shiitake. Thanks for all your help/input/comments/jabs, gentlemen.  If anyone ever has a Hegel H190 on the block, please let me know.  
Greetings from Toronto Canada.  I ran into the same problem moved in a new home and couldn't find any furniture to accommodate. This setup is for my wife with Ikea furniture Besta frames and the top is butcher block from Home Depot cost under $500cad. Photos in link.
https://photos.app.goo.gl/k4yZAEPZcYD8mqPD8
@barts   *L*  Or you might napalm the situation, creating an interval of 'dry' non-romantic encounters that could force the 'second space option'.

Marriage counseling in this forum isn't anyone's strong suit....backhoes, lawyers...I'm waiting for the 'tire iron' or 'Smith & Wesson' option to crop up with less than bated breath....:(

There exists a 'happy medium', but it's going to take effort to find it.
" A lot of the fashionable stuff is 14-16" tall...." suggests modern styled decor...perhaps a MCM 'retro' console or the like?  
If she's into more 'trad' styles, your options kinda evaporate....