+1 @barts
Because the OP posted on our forum, I'm assuming he is interested in high-end audio quality. Seems a bit unfair that the OP is giving into his wife's interest, but she's ignoring his. You could say, "I wanted you to have "X" because it was important to you, I was hoping for "Y" because it's important to me." Then maybe say "Can we work it out so that we both win?"
Because the OP posted on our forum, I'm assuming he is interested in high-end audio quality. Seems a bit unfair that the OP is giving into his wife's interest, but she's ignoring his. You could say, "I wanted you to have "X" because it was important to you, I was hoping for "Y" because it's important to me." Then maybe say "Can we work it out so that we both win?"