If you want really well matched output tubes you need to burn them in for awhile and retest. They will drift around a bit when they are new. Unless you are curve tracing, you will need to test under the conditions of your amp. Fixed bias amps usually allow for adjusting the balance of the bias current in the output transformer so perfect match is then not necessary. With cathode bias you will want to be closer. If a tube is going to fail from a defect, it will most likely fail in the first 100 hours. Also, in my experience it takes tubes 50-100 hours before they sound the best. For me it doesn't make sense trying to locate matched NOS output tubes. I would suggest finding current production output tubes that you like and stock up. And if the dealer burns them in first before testing I would consider that a good thing.
As for boxes, tubes from the 1950's & 60's the boxes used cardboard with a high acid residue that over time turns them a brownish color and makes the cardboard very brittle. Just opening the box to test can damage the packaging.