The 5751 has a gain of 70 compared to the 12au7 gain of 19. I've never heard of using that in place of a 12au7. I do replace 12ax7's with them and like them.
As far as low gain 12au7's I don't know of one. Someone may give recommendations for a tube to try. If not you could put a simple two resistor voltage divider network on the input to your amp.
As far as low gain 12au7's I don't know of one. Someone may give recommendations for a tube to try. If not you could put a simple two resistor voltage divider network on the input to your amp.