I wouldn't mind paying for audition of what I want to audition, either in-home or not. Dealers are not mules, why should they work for free? When you consult with other professionals you always pay, I see no reason why it should be different in high-end audio field. The fees must be reasonable and refundable if you buy, that's for sure. This situation would improve dealer-customer relations and decrease the probability of buing wrong equipment.
Two dealers cooperating to let you compare is a great idea even if it doesn't sound very realistic for most cases.
Two dealers cooperating to let you compare is a great idea even if it doesn't sound very realistic for most cases.