Regarding the TiVo remote, I entered the 1999 code into my TiVo remote and pointed it at the SimAudio amp. I hit the channel up button telling the remote to connect to the amplifier. It took about 4 seconds for the amplifier to go into mute (meaning no sound) and the TiVo remote was connected to the amp.
I tested the TiVo volume control and it worked perfectly. As a further test, I turned the amplifier off and back on again. Great news. The TiVo remote volume control works fine.
It is amazing to me that the TiVo remote works perfectly on some equipment (Ayre, SimAudio) and does NOT work on other equipment (Parasound, Bricasti). I guess every company uses different technology.
Thanks again for your help.