Mandocarrie, my sincerest belated condolences to you and your family. I have much respect for Elgordo, he was a well respected member of our community.
I know it is an overstated saying, and it probably won't help at a time like this, but time really does help heal the scars. My father left me on October 25, 1987. Do I still miss him, absolutely. However, I do find as I get wrapped up in life, work, family, my children, friends, etc, the pain has subsided. Believe it or not, you will eventually move on with your life, as I'm sure he would want.
I smile more now when I think of my dad. I wish he were still here, but now when I have thoughts of him it brings smiles, not tears. Maybe it's beacuse I only remember the fun times, I'm not sure.
Anyway, thank you again for sharing and caring about our lives. Live well and make your father proud.
Peace,
John
I know it is an overstated saying, and it probably won't help at a time like this, but time really does help heal the scars. My father left me on October 25, 1987. Do I still miss him, absolutely. However, I do find as I get wrapped up in life, work, family, my children, friends, etc, the pain has subsided. Believe it or not, you will eventually move on with your life, as I'm sure he would want.
I smile more now when I think of my dad. I wish he were still here, but now when I have thoughts of him it brings smiles, not tears. Maybe it's beacuse I only remember the fun times, I'm not sure.
Anyway, thank you again for sharing and caring about our lives. Live well and make your father proud.
Peace,
John