"Prima facie it seems that when you played your record, it doubled the charge" First, 0.1kV to 0.2kV is a range where the meter is not very accurate and readings are not very repeatable. The meter never reads zero, for example. So the difference between the two readings may not even be statistically significant. Second, like I said, it is much more likely that my touching the LP had more to do with the difference, if it was even real. Third, such a low amount of static charge is inconsequential even if real. The problem we are addressing has to do with charges far in excess of 100V (0.1kV). 10kV (or 11kV in the specific case I noted) is 100 times higher 0.1kV. Do you have a background in this field, or are you a physicist or other scientist? If so, feel free to point out the error in my thinking. Since you don't have access to my meter, you could not have known its quirks, so I don't mean to criticize you for that.
I don't know why you compare "electromagnetic force" to gravity. First, the magnitude of the difference as you express it has no meaning unless you know the relevant parameters for the source of the EM force, in the case of EM, and the sizes of the objects that experience gravitational attraction and the distance between them, in the case of gravity. But also, electrostatic attraction is not identical to electromagnetism. The point about the Zerostat is only that if used properly it will reduce the charge to a harmless level. And it costs a lot less than most of the modern alternative gadgets.
Some flat earthers maintain that what we experience as gravity is due to electrostatic attraction. They have to resort to such an explanation, because if the earth were flat, it would not be massive enough to account for the gravity we do experience.