The decisions of the recording engineer and producer determine how the soundstage is reproduced. That is why you state that “on some recordings it is hit or miss”. Decisions on the venue, microphone placement, recording equipment, phasing, and mixing all impact soundstage reproduction. IMHO, and realize I am speaking in broad generalities, single or minimally miked recordings from companies like Linn, Wilson, Stockfish, Maple Shade, Chesky, Reference Recordings, Naxos, Proprius, Etc. produce naturally wide and deep staging. The old multi miked recordings from RCA, Decca, and Mercury from the 50s and 60s also produce excellent staging where engineering decisions such as close miking a drum kit or a piano in the middle of the sound board are also evident. Offerings from 2L are multi miked with excellent results as well. Most modern pop is studio produced with isolation booths. Mixing determines soundstage placement. A vocal can be dead center or off center. When you hear instruments around you (think Waters, Amused to Death) is usually a decision to record out of phase. Therefore, the differences you hear are the artistic decisions of the recording engineer and producer, with input from the performer. I have attached a good review article.