geoffkait,
I will have to repeat myself. Knowing when to curb yourself or stop is necessary in any communication.
Nobody should expect you to be deeply familiar with practice of medicine, but your...
"If things were so dire, why is it taking so long to get a diagnosis? It’s been what, a month, since he mentioned it?"
make me remember that knowing when to curb yourself or stop is necessary in any communication. Also, it may be hard to grasp a mind and thoughts of a cancer patient and ways she/he copes with that problem, but there have been many pages written about it. It does not matter if you read them or not.
Stop insulting people around here. Even if you think it is funny or witty, it is not.
PS The cancer patient has the right to talk about her/his illness. You do not, unless specifically called for. As a dark reminder. Age is a significant risk factor for cancer. None of us is getting younger. You would be granted same above-mentioned right, if you found yourself in amg56’s situation, with no questions asked.