You have zero feedback on USAM, but it has two purchases listed for you on their website…. Unusual at a minimum.
I’ve been on USAM it’s older parent sister site, CAM, for 16 years and it is a generally very well-run forum every bit as good as AGON . It’s moderators are excellent “no-sh*t” and fair operators…full stop. Feedback doesn’t get removed capriciously and it’s invoked as a last resort when forum rules are contravened.
No, there is not a blanket cohort of “other” audiophiles having the same problem as you.